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Resources and apps for dads 

Tommy's Pregnancy Charity

Tommy'sTommy's exists to support, care for and champion people on their pregnancy journey. 

There are a wide range of dad specific information and video links on the Tommy's website, detailed below:


nct1National Childbirth Trust - What's it like for dad's during labour?

Dads go though their own huge physiological and psychological changes in the birth room, so don’t underestimate the emotional and physical impact of being a birth partner. It is a massive emotional rollercoaster where your feelings can change from excitement to fear, exhaustion to elation in a few seconds.

It’s been shown that having a supportive birth partner present at the birth can lead to a better birthing experience and can even make labour progress more quickly. So dads and other birth partners really matter.


the-lullaby-trust-dads-zone-share-the-same-room-as-your-baby-for-the-first-six-months-whenever-they-sleepThe Lullaby Trust Dads Zone

The Lullaby Trust raises awareness of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), provides expert advice on safer sleep for babies and offers emotional support for bereaved families

In recognition of the key role that dads play in the care of their baby, the Trust has developed a space on their website just for new and expectant dads.


DadPadDadPadThe Essential Guide for New Dads support Guide for New Dads  

Developed with the NHS, the DadPad app gives new dads and dads-to-be the knowledge and skills needed to gain confidence and give their baby the best start in life.  is a guide for new dads, developed with the NHS. Once the app is downloaded you will be asked to input your location and will be directed to the Humber and North Yorkshire version of the DadPad app. 


tedx4450TED talk from Mark Williams - The importance of new father's mental health 

In this video, Mark discusses his lived experience of witnessing his wife go through a traumatic birth and post-natal depression and how this impacted upon his own mental health and parenting. He discusses the importance of supporting new fathers with their wellbeing. 


Andys man clubAndy Man’s Clubs  

This men’s suicide prevention charity offers free-to-attend peer-to-peer support groups across the United Kingdom and online. Working to end the stigma surrounding men’s mental health and help men through the power of conversation. #ITSOKAYTOTALK


ICON logoICON - Babies Cry, You Can Cope

ICON - Babies Cry, You Can Cope programme supports parents and carers manage normal infant crying and to prevent abusive head trauma injuries to babies caused by shaking, also referred to as ‘shaken baby syndrome’.

ICON is an evidenced-based programme designed to help parents and carers understand the normal crying pattern of young infants and to help them develop successful coping mechanisms to deal with this.

The ICON programme delivers four simple messages before the birth and in the first few months of a baby’s life:

  • I - Infant crying is normal
  • C - Comforting methods can help
  • O - It’s OK to walk away
  • N - Never, ever shake a baby

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Your baby is now officially an embryo and is about the size of a poppy seed.

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/4-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Your baby is now the size of a kidney bean and weighs 1g. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/8-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Welcome to the second trimester!

Your baby is about the size of a small lime and weighs approximately 14g.

You have hopefully seen your midwife for your 'booking in' appointment, if you have not yet seen a midwife please make an appointment quickly, so you can have all of your choices about screening tests explained and offered to you.

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/12-weeks-pregnant/ for more information. You can also link to the 'Pregnancy Journey' area here.  

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Your baby is about the size of an avocado and weighs approximately 100g. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/16-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Your baby has grown in length and is now the length of a small banana and weighs approximately 300g. Around this time you will be offered your '20 week' scan, also known as the 'anatomy' or 'anomaly' scan.Click here for more information about screening. 

This is a also a good time to talk and sing to your bump as your baby can now hear sounds. This is great way for you and your partner/family to bond with your baby.

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/20-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Your baby has grown again to the approximate length of an ear of sweetcorn and weighs about 600g. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/24-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Welcome to the third trimester!

Your baby is now approximately the weight of an aubergine; about 1kg and approximately 37cm in length. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/28-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Your baby now weighs approximately the same as a coconut; around 1.5kg. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/32-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Your baby is now around the same size as a lettuce, approximately 47cm long and weighs around 2.6kg. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/36-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.

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Your baby is now the weight of a small watermelon which is approximately 3.3kg and around 50cm in length. 

Please visit www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/40-weeks-pregnant/ for more information.